Know what you're looking for

A little thought before you start makes everything easier.

Are you hoping for a long-term relationship, friendship, or simply to meet new people who live the way you do? There's no wrong answer, but being clear with yourself helps you recognise the right people, and helps them recognise you.

Why date someone who's vegan too

Sharing your values from the start takes a lot of pressure off.

There's no explaining what's on your plate, no awkwardness choosing a restaurant, and no worrying about whose kitchen you cook in. You can get straight on to the things that make someone interesting.

Getting started

Keep yourself safe

Keep early conversations on the site, never send money to anyone you've met online, and meet somewhere public when you're ready. Our guide on how to spot a fake dating profile explains the warning signs.